by Conscious Reminder
Movies, shows and books have always made you believe that there is a soulmate for every one of us. You find them around in real-life too, the perfect couples everybody is jealous of.
You have looked everywhere and done everything you could have done, from classes to astrology. Yet, you didn’t find the person, who was supposed to be here years ago and give you your happy ending. What happened?
There is a very apparent problem that stands between you and your soulmate. The problem is a person and that is you, yourself. You stand in between a lonely or unsatisfactory present and a happy future with a lover who is right for you; no one else.
The truth is that, you don’t need to try any further techniques to get the person you are looking forward to; you need to be is the best version of yourself.
So it’s not about finding the right partner; it’s about being the right partner. Your soul mate will show up when you’re being the best you can be.
Here are 5 ways to attract the soulmate you’ve dreamed of:
1. Let go of resentment over the past
If you don’t let go of past hurt, you will always be held back by it. You need to forgive, forget and let go of the past, it sets a lot of emotions free. If you’re not ready to move on, your right partner will not be ready for you.
2. Heal emotionally and mentally
We all have scars from our past. These affect our present greatly and should not be kept buried. Speaking about them with a counselor, writing them down in a journal or spiritual practices will help let go of them.
3. Character improvement
There is something wrong with all of us. The first step to improving your character is acknowledging that there is something wrong.
Your soulmate will not fix your character flaws. On the contrary, you will be attracting people with the same character flaws towards you. You should work on self-improvement and good habits, like honesty, calmness and kindness.
4. Adopt the qualities you want in your ideal partner
All the qualities that you want in your soulmate, your only job is to develop those qualities within yourself. Ask yourself this: are you the person you want? If you aren’t, all you have to do is become the person you’d want to date and spend the rest of your life with.
5. Vibrate at a high frequency
If you’re cynical, bitter, negative, angry or short tempered, you will attract people at that energy level. Do things that bring you happiness, joy and peace. Look for ways to improve your perspective and outlook on life. Your soulmate will appear automatically, then.
You are the only person standing in the way of yourself and your soulmate, but you have the power to change this!
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