by Conscious Reminder
New Years are always the time when we contemplate about what happened during the months we left behind, and hope for a fresh start that will bring us new experiences and new growth.
Those who were lucky enough to meet their Twin Flame rather wish a year of less running and chasing, and more of a real efforts that both Twin partners will put into building a stable relationship.
But are we living in a fantasy world?
Twin relationships are hard, but not unachievable. Don’t just blame it on your Twin for running away, because most of the time their running away is not what is putting the relationship in danger. it’s actually something that runs deeper.
Unfortunately, most of the times we set our own obstacles on the road to fulfilling our dreams.
There are 3 main things that we must do in order to captivate our true twin flame energy and ascend towards a deeper connection with our twin flame.
1. Stop listening to the naysayers
Even though in most cases we are the one who say we can do this, we can do that, a naysayer can be anyone – a parent, a friend, a teacher. Don’t listen to them, don’t listen to yourself! Putting limitations and conditions to yourself, rarely leads so any kind of success.
And I know many of you will roll their eyes to this saying ‘Everyone knows that’, but it takes more than just knowing and being aware of it. It takes practice, and daily. You have to practice not listening to false voices that limit you. Instead pay more attention to voices of productivity and encouragement that help us grow and give our best.
2. Stop chasing after your twin flame
The chase actually rarely takes physical form. We live in the era of social media, and it looks like virtual life is slowly taking over our real lives. We stop paying attention to what actually matters like our fiends, family and the people we care about, and spend more and more time in this virtual world. We are completely detached. So if your twin does not even get back to his or her close friends… you might not be up there to receive a response right away.
Stop pushing it. Don’t text, call or contact him/her in any way. It will backfire big time and only push your twin flame further away from you.
So what can you do? It’s simple actually. Divert your attention towards yourself. Work and invest in your life. Remember who you really are. Grow and transform. Make meaningful relationships with others than your Twin. Raise your vibration. You never know, you might even start building a reality for yourself that will also attract your Twin Flame. If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.
Remember that your inner energy is connected to your twin, so when you work and improve the different areas of your life – your twin flame also feels this, and the feeling of light resonates within them, even if it’s on a subconscious level.
3. Create a strategy, it will come in handy!
More often than not we dream about things that never come true. When I gave it a further thought, I realized that maybe when we want something so bad it creates an opposite effect, because we force the flow too much and don’t let things take their natural course.
Wishing and yearning rarely works. That’s because all too often the energy attached to that is one of neediness. And when we become needy towards our twin, or even the universe – we already lost. Yes, this is counter-intuitive from what we see in the movies or fairy tales.
Develop your inner energy to instead bloom feelings of abundance. This creates synergy with such amazing feelings that we create, feel, and that vibrate outwardly to others and across the universe. How do we do this?
Begin by building a system that works for you. One that does not originate from a place of yearning, but one of taking the right actions each day to improve the quality of your life. I know, this does not sound as romantic as chasing after your twin flame, and it’s not, but in real life – unlike the movies, chasing will only make things worst. Instead, learn to love life again, remember those little things that excited you about life before, bring them back, make them grow, and share that energy with others.
Find ways to develop your own system that blooms in creativity, it’s productive each day, and focuses in your inner energy, instead of a desperate outward search of others.
I know I have placed a lot here for you, and perhaps not given you all the answers you seek, especially within this year, but realize that you do not need all the answers right now. You just need enough to take the next step, once you take that step – take the next one, and so on.
Ultimately, 2018 won’t be about the importance of the answers we get. These 12 months well be all about getting answers and improve upon them.
Be ready for whatever future brings. Accept it, handle it and send it back into the universe. Don’t think too much about what other say or what your twin says.
In the end, our inner energy that we reflect upon is what shapes our reality.
Just go with the flow and enjoy the ride.
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