Are You Soulmates Or Sole Mates?

by Conscious Reminder

“Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same.”
— Emily Brontë

Have you felt this way? If you have, congratulations on finding your soulmate. The concept of soulmate can be pretty haunting if you believe you are a complete whole.

It is also very rare that you meet your soulmate. Life is a series of unpredictable happenings that make complete sense at some time.

Ask yourself if your partner is your soulmate, if not, don’t worry. Here’s why you could find happiness without living with your soulmate:

1. Love Will Find A Way

As human beings we are bound to feel a plethora of emotions. Just as we enjoy different kinds of activities, we love a lot of people.

Why should you limit your experiences only to the idealized notion of your soulmate? Yes they exist, yes you can fall in love with them, yes they may leave too – the purpose of a soulmate is to help you grow.

Once you have an open heart and you let a lot of people in, you’ll automatically welcome all kinds of experiences. What matters in the end is who you love.

2. You Don’t Have To Be Stuck With Your Soulmate

A soulmate can be anyone from your teacher to your friend. Even if you find your soulmate and decide this is not what you want, it’s your choice to walk out of the toxic relationship.

You may have issues that the Disney movies fail to address. So it’s fine if you don’t tie the knot with your soulmate.

3. There’s No Guarantee

Sometimes things look like a fairytale on a paper but are actually different in reality. Your soulmate may not be your romantic partner, if he or she is, there’s no guarantee it’ll last forever.

Nothing is predestined, every relationship requires effort and you can’t force anyone to be there. Life is much more than finding a soulmate and getting married. Make friends, evolve and love.

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