by Conscious Reminder
Trust is like glass. Break it once and no matter how hard you try to put the pieces back together, the cracks will always be there to remind you of your mistake.
The same is with trust – it takes a second to break it, and maybe a lifetime to regain it, if ever.
It’s hard to tell who will always have your back because people change. I believe we are all highly intelligent individuals who can tell a trustworthy person apart from one you shouldn’t always believe.
You should be careful in dealing with untrusty people because they’re good at hiding their real intentions.
Fortunately, there are showing signs that will help you figure out if someone is worthy of your trust or not. Here are some of the people you should’t always trust.
1. Dangerously Charming People
Some people use their charm to victimize others. They appear sweet to you and even shower you with many gifts or sweet words.
To differentiate the real charming from the fake ones, look for these hints.
Real charming people open up to you about themselves and even their whereabouts while the fake ones show a charm that’s too good to be true without opening up a bit about themselves.
2. People Who Don’t Show Empathy.
People who are prone to break your trust lacks empathy.
It’s because they don’t want to see themselves in the shoes of the others.
If they do, they would know how does it feel to be betrayed. But, as much as possible, they will avoid this scenario and focus their attention on how they can victimize other people.
When you meet this kind of person, keep an eye for yourself.
You might be their next victim.
3. People who give out other people’s secrets.
When someone or even your friend keeps telling you the secrets of other people, it’s a clear clue that they will do the same with you.
Meaning, when you share them your secrets and some interesting things about you, the whole world will know about it.
They don’t see the importance of secrets as long as they can get something in spilling it out unto others.
People with narcissistic traits see themselves as the center of The Universe. They will make you believe they’re that important and cajole you to open up to them and become a part of their inner circle.
However, when things mess up, they won’t own up to their mistakes. They’ll manipulate stories that will put the blame on you and how you pushed them to act in a certain way.
They’ll even make it look like they’re the victim in the situation.
Be wary of these people because nothing is important to them than their own ego.
5. People who can’t make up their mind about anything.
Indecisive people can’t be relied on because you don’t know whether they will truly support your idea or not.
On the other hand, fickle minded people have unstable disposal.
They’re like a pendulum that can swing back and forth.
Today, they’ll say yes to you but the next day, they’ll change their minds and say no.
You can’t expect anything from them because they may simply disappear even when they have made commitments to you.
Art by: Cristina Hoch
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