by Conscious Reminder
Life is a weird journey and this possibly isn’t the best way to start a passage but it is what it is. Nobody can say that they have a book that tells them all that they need to know about life.
Life is a series of trial and error. You crawl, you walk, you run, you fall and you get back up and start walking again. People always say that there is a first time of everything and this is as scary as it is exciting.
You never know how tough or easy something is until you try it. Some first-timers aren’t as amazing an experience as others.
For example, the first kiss is beautiful, s*x for the first time is undeniably awkward but fun, but the emotionally abusive relationship isn’t. And nobody wants to experience it willingly. Not even once.
‘You cannot reason with the unreasonable’
This is what he posted after we got into an awful fight. And the only way to resolve it was to apologize to him without even knowing or willfully accepting what he claimed to be wrong on my part.
Some people would rather accuse you and demand of an apology than allow another person to accept their mistake in the first place. It’s like they are the lawyer and judge all at once.
And this can cause some serious damage to the victim’s mind and heart. And then we come to the second phase of the fight which is an endless cycle of insecurities with proportions of it being absolutely narcissistic in nature.
I can’t exactly point out when and how this started. This madness, this over-possessiveness, the jealousy, the quick snapping of the fuse. Maybe it was always there, from the very beginning, subtle at first, loud and piercing later.
Almost ten minutes back I could’ve sworn that I love this guy and now I feel like he makes me feel less of a human, lovable only under circumstances. Now mind you, the hurting power of words increases when they come from someone you’re in love with.
And this is the cycle. There is not a lot that you can do when the other person is not willing to listen. And this is who he is.
What I learnt from this is that when someone shows you their true colors, don’t try to repaint them. They are a human, not a fence. Repainting them will only hide the dents, not remove them.
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