Growing Up Means Learning To Say Goodbye

Saying goodbye really requires a lot of effort, but most of all, it causes a lot of pain. In fact, we are often overwhelmed with fear and uncertainty.

When we love, we need to be careful not to lose our individuality or change the way we see the world or live.

Love doesn’t grow when we just put up with things, but when we are free to keep evolving and growing.

It’s all about preference rather than a need. You choose to be together with your partner, to grow together with him or her.

We have to be the people we’ve always wanted to be, always whole and complete, without longing for another ‘half’ that would ‘complete’ us.

If this doesn’t happen, or if there are no two different and unique people who enjoy in their individual lives and in the one they have created together, it is better to say goodbye and walk away.

Open yourself for new possibilities, and let new and better people, places and things happen to you.

“If you don’t love yourself, won’t be easy for others to love you. Healthy love always starts at home” — Walter Riso

Love Yourself First, Then Choose Whomever You Want

We must learn to say “I love myself” before “I love you”. Only in this way will we really know love.

Love is not a game or a competition. It is not about winning or losing, but growing.

it’s not easy to have to choose between your personal well-being and the well-being of those who love.

However, this is the only way to leave no holes in our hearts, and not to feel empty and desolate.

After all, we are all responsible of our own happiness. It shouldn’t depend on anyone else but ourselves.

By seeding seeds of love, keeping the fruits of storm, we will provide food for our love for others in a healthy way.

For this reason, before thinking that we love someone, we need to understand whether we love ourselves enough.

This is the only way to create lasting and irrefutable emotional bonds.

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