I’m not saying it’s wrong to be polite, but when you feel a compulsive desire to satisfy others, it can be dangerous for a number of reasons. Here’s why.
1.You suppress a lot of emotions
2. You feel extreme pressure to maintain your reputation
3. People use you.
When you please other people, you’re open to abuse. Narcissists, energy vampires, bullies and people in pain are easily attracted to you, like moths to a flame.