We are all different people leading different lives and facing different obstacles, but each and every one of our journeys has one thing in common, and that’s growth. And as growth is almost synonymous with change—and changes are never easy—it’s almost impossible to avoid the paint that comes with it.
Since you are reading this, I believe that you have already had a little taste of growth and change. You have experienced pain and emotional trauma, but you have outgrown it, recovered, and come out a much better person. “Better” meaning you are well on your way to becoming who you are meant to be.
If this happens to be a time of hardship, it probably means that you are leaving behind your old self and the habits that serve you nothing anymore. You’re awakening to a new self, one that does not want to be shackled by the old.
Don’t fight the winds, and don’t swim against the tides; let go and let the flow carry you.
Here are four sometimes painful indicators that you’re growing and ascending.
1. Career change
Growth is funny because what was good yesterday may not be so good years later. Maybe you’ve had the same job for ten years, but suddenly you wake up one day and realize that not only is this job that you used to love starting to feel empty, but it’s actually draining you.
Career changes can be sudden and unexpected or planned out and executed with tact. The fact remains that something is out of alignment, and your transition will take place either by your hand or your employer’s. But do not become fearful. These changes happen because better things are waiting for you just up ahead. You must surrender to the cosmos.
2. ‘Friends’ disappear from the map.
Friendship often thrives on commonalities. You have friends because you like discussing the same things, doing similar activities, and you just seem to get along on a level that you don’t with other people. But, as you grow into your new self, these things can change. So, you must be ready to acknowledge that sometimes friendships come to an end.
You may have a new perspective on life and no longer want to talk about or do the same things. You will undoubtedly feel resistance from your friends, who may become angry at your newfound growth. The only thing you can do is be yourself and continue moving in a direction that aligns with your vibration. This will attract other friends who are more aligned with what you are striving to become.
3. Society doesn’t approve of your spirituality.
In the modern era, spirituality is often associated with stigma. Most people on this planet seem to associate spirituality solely with hippy flower children who prefer organic foods, wear gemstones, and keep a dream journal. In this sense, becoming more spiritual and connected to your inner self will make you vulnerable.
The best thing to do when confronted with negativity about your spirituality is to simply put it out of your mind. It can be uncomfortable to hear people demean your spirituality at first, but eventually your understanding of the world helps you recognize that these people simply live in the dark. Project comfortability and confidence in your spirituality, and people will realize they cannot harm you.
4. Loneliness kicks in.
As you deepen your spiritual growth and explore new paths, it increasingly becomes evident that some segments of your journey necessitate solitude. If this loneliness is not something you can revel in, reach out to those in the spiritual community. Start going to a yoga class, or maybe look for a meditative group. Put yourself out there, and the universe will give back. Eventually, you will discover that your loneliness has vanished, as these new spiritual relationships are fulfilling your needs.
Another way to avoid feeling lonely is by practicing meditation. When you look inward, you begin to become comfortable being alone in silence. With meditation, you may be alone, but you will not feel alone.
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If you’re lonely go to a yoga class or join a meditation class? Aren’t those solitary practices a person just happens to do with others around? I have never made a friend at either of those things.