by Conscious Reminder
If you are currently with your false twin flame, or were in the past- you’d know that being with them is one of the most emotionally traumatic phases of our lives.
We are shaken to our core and often wonder what we ever did to deserve such a fate. But ruminating over these relationships is no good. Trying to avoid them completely too is neither possible, nor without its own perils. You see, like everything else in life- the false twin relationships too have a purpose to serve.
Being in a relationship with your false twin is like undergoing a preparatory drill for the time you eventually meet your true twin flame. It helps us move further on the path of illumination.
It is a very important and unavoidable step in the journey of our ultimate spiritual enlightenment. There is a reason why the universe works the way it does. All we have to do is have enough trust and faith that we are where we are supposed to be.
The reason false twins are sent in our lives by the universe is to help us learn and grow. There are a few lessons which only they can teach us. And the most important of these lessons is- facing our fears. This act is painful in itself. Being coerced into doing it by a false twin is even more hurtful. But it is necessary because otherwise, on our own we might never gather the nerve to do it.
But it is supremely important that we face our past, learn from it and move on. Otherwise it will always taint our future. Every new relationship we form is tainted by our past traumatic experiences. The only way to end this vicious cycle is to confront our childhood wounds and that is where the false twin flame comes in.
Now, even if you know that you’re in a relationship with a false twin, it is not as easy to drop everything and move on. Their aura and energy is incredibly similar to our true twin and that makes letting go a lot harder than it should be.
In such circumstances, you need to detach yourself from the situation, and think objectively. Stop negating your own happiness and well being. Before you think about the feelings or opinions of others- ask yourself how you feel. If you don’t feel good or the relationship makes you feel trapped and insecure; then you need to let go.
There is no other way. It might seem like they are your twin flame but they are only a counterfeit. The only way to find your true twin flame is by disentangling yourself from this doppelganger.
Relationships are supposed to make you feel happy and full. They should fill you with positivity and a can-do attitude. If instead, all you get from the relationship is a sort of numbness of feelings (best case scenario) or straightforward trauma (worst case), then it is time to end things. There is no way this relationship would ever mend itself in the future.
The fact that you’re coming to this self realization also means that your lesson is complete now. There is nothing new that this false twin can teach you. With time, you’d be able to look back and realize what all important lessons you learnt with the help of this false twin.
However, the present is only suited to cut ties. Don’t think of the future as excessively dark and bleak. Remember, you are where you should be in life. When the time comes you’ll pick your path and meet your true twin.
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