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Saying goodbye really requires a lot of effort, but most of all, it causes a lot of pain. In fact, we are often overwhelmed with fear and uncertainty.
When we love, we need to be careful not to lose our individuality or change the way we see the world or live.
Love doesn’t grow when we just put up with things, but when we are free to keep evolving and growing.
It’s all about preference rather than a need. You choose to be with your partner and grow with him or her.
We have to be the people we’ve always wanted to be, always whole and complete, without longing for another ‘half’ that would ‘complete’ us.
If this doesn’t happen, or if there aren’t two distinct and unique individuals who enjoy their individual lives as well as the one they have created together, it’s best to say goodbye and move on.
Open yourself to new possibilities, and let new and better people, places, and things happen to you.
“If you don’t love yourself, it won’t be easy for others to love you. Healthy love always starts at home.” — Walter Riso
Love Yourself First, Then Choose Whomever You Want
We must learn to say “I love myself” before “I love you.” Only in this way will we really know love.
Love is not a game or a competition. It is not about winning or losing, but growing.
It’s not easy to have to choose between your personal well-being and the well-being of those you love.
However, this is the only way to leave no holes in our hearts and not to feel empty and desolate.
After all, we are all responsible for our own happiness. It shouldn’t depend on anyone else but ourselves.
By seeding seeds of love and keeping the fruits of the storm, we will provide food for our love for others in a healthy way.
For this reason, before thinking that we love someone, we need to understand whether we love ourselves enough.
This is the only way to create lasting and irrefutable emotional bonds.
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