We are currently experiencing the third and last Mercury Retrograde of 2025 and all the miscommunications and technical difficulties that it will bring along with it.
Mercury retrograde is also known for bringing back your exes.
Mercury Retrograde: What Is It?
Mercury retrograde happens when Mercury passes Earth in its orbit around the Sun. From the perspective of the people living on Earth, it appears that Mercury is moving in a different direction, even though it is not.
Astrologers refer to Mercury as the “winged messenger,” ruling over domains such as information, communication, technology, logic, and transportation. When Mercury goes retrograde, all these areas get scrambled, and they tend to move slower than usual.
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Mercury Retrograde: How Does It Affect Your Exes?
Mercury rules over your thoughts and has a deep connection to your society. When it is in retrograde, your mind will tend to shift towards the past and look into your past relationships. From there, you will begin to attract your ex-partners.
When you keep going back to these old memories or thoughts, your ex will pick up on those “signals” and start thinking about you in return. This might happen even if you are not intentionally thinking about your loved ones.
The phenomenon of attracting past lovers will be particularly potent during this retrograde. This will undoubtedly occur during the Mercury retrograde, as it coincides with other retrogrades that carry strong earth sign energies.
During this Mercury retrograde, four other planets will also be in retrograde. Neptune is retrograde until December 10 in Pisces, Uranus is retrograde until February 4, 2026, in Taurus, Saturn is retrograde until November 28 in Gemini, and Jupiter will be retrograde until March 11, 2026, in Cancer.
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Why Exes Reappear?
• Revisiting the Past
The apparent “backward” motion of Mercury (which governs communication and thought processes) is believed to bring a literal “rewinding” effect to your life, prompting you to revisit people and situations from your past.
• Unresolved Issues
Exes often return because there is “unfinished business” that needs attention. This could be an opportunity to address long-standing issues, clear the air, and find a resolution that allows both parties to move forward, whether together or apart.
• Nostalgia and Reflection
Both you and your former partner may feel more nostalgic and introspective during this time, leading to an urge to reach out or unexpectedly run into each other.
• Karmic Cycles
Some believe these encounters are karmic, providing a chance to learn from past mistakes and break negative patterns.
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How to Navigate the Situation
• Proceed with Caution
Astrologers strongly advise caution when an ex reappears. The emotional turmoil and potential for miscommunication are heightened during a retrograde, meaning a conversation could quickly turn into an argument.
• Focus on the “Re-” Words
Use the period for “re-view,” “re-assess,” “re-think,” and “re-flect.” This is a time for introspection, not for making major decisions or new commitments, as they might be built on shaky foundations or temporary feelings.
• Seek Clarity, Not Reunion
The primary goal of these interactions should be to gain clarity or closure, not necessarily to rekindle the romance. Ask yourself the hard questions: Was I the problem? What did I learn from this? Is this genuinely worth revisiting?
• Wait for Mercury to Go Direct
If you’re considering a serious reconciliation, it’s best to wait until after Mercury stations direct and the “retroshade” period (the few weeks following) has passed to ensure clear communication and a stable foundation.
• Prioritize Self-Care
Lean into your feelings, but use the time for self-reflection activities like journaling or meditation to process emotions and avoid impulsive reactions.
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Final Takeaway
If your past loved ones are reaching out or you are tempted to reach out to them, do so with caution. Mercury retrograde is known for its lack of clear minds and miscommunication. Therefore, it is crucial for you to make proper decisions during this period. Be mindful of your thoughts and emotions, as they can easily be influenced by the chaotic energy surrounding you. Take this time to reflect and reassess your relationships, ensuring that any communication is thoughtful and intentional.
You need to remind yourself to think before you interact and to reread all your messages before you hit the send button. You can also hold off on making any moves till Mercury goes direct on November 29, 2025.
While navigating through this Mercury retrograde, keep in mind that your ex is still your ex and nothing more.
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