On the path to enlightenment, it’s inevitable that you’ll stumble upon a couple of obstacles. This is absolutely normal and, to be honest, necessary if we want to grow and learn.
One of the most important lessons we will learn along the way is that LOVE is the absolute force that gives momentum to our existence, and there is nothing greater than loving ourselves and knowing our worth.
However, don’t let yourself get too carried away, as too much of anything is never good!
Fortunately, I was lucky enough to run into an old friend who practically opened my eyes. This person helped me face my biggest fear; he showed me myself and all the walls I had built around me. These walls became my defense mechanism, which I used to protect myself from being hurt again. The list of people whom I lost in the process is quite long, and, unfortunately, there might be one person on it I never should have let go of.
Below, you can find a couple of clues that may help you figure out whether you have lost your soulmate. If you recognize yourself and the situation you are in, please don’t despair. Nothing is ever lost. If your destiny is to be together, you will find a way to reconcile.
1. You still feel the need to help them.
If you jump at the first opportunity that comes along to help this person, it means that you might still have strong feelings for them, and they should never have let go. Furthermore, if your actions jeopardize your new job or relationship, there may be underlying issues. Maybe it’s time to start listening to your heart.
2. You have adopted many of their traits.
3. You have never loved anybody more than you love them.
Scientists say that falling in love is a chemical reaction that takes place in our brains, and it might simply be nature’s way to keep our species alive.
However, if you can’t shake the feeling that this might be the person you were meant to spend your life with, it might be just because they are!
4. You can’t get them out of your head.
You catch yourself thinking of this person literally all the time. No matter where you go or what you do, they are still there, popping up in your thoughts every second of your day. You used to think there were countless ways they were detrimental to you, but were they really?
The fact that you can’t get them out of your mind may be a reason to get back in touch and try to rekindle your relationship.
5. You are still impressed by them.
If you haven’t met anyone more impressive than them yet, then you are in trouble. Sometimes, we can’t see people’s true worth until we lose them. Their absence serves as a wake-up call, but sometimes it comes too late, after the person has already departed.
Hopefully, you are not among those who let the love of their life go. Go through this list once, twice, or three times… take your time. Think about whether you need to do something to get this person back or if the person next to you makes you feel any of the things listed above. Maybe it’s time to cut ties instead.
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