5 Signs That Will Tell You If The One You Let Go Was “The One”

by Conscious Reminder

On the path to enlightenment, it’s inevitable to stumble upon a couple of obstacles. This is absolutely normal and, to be honest, necessary if we want to grow and learn.

One of the most important lesson we will learn along the way is that LOVE is the absolute force that gives momentum to out existence and there is nothing greater than loving ourselves and knowing our worth.

However, don’t let yourself to get too carried away, as too much of anything is never good!

Fortunately, I was lucky enough to run into an old friend who practically opened my eyes. This person helped me face my biggest fear; he showed me myself and all the walls I had built around me. These walls became my defense mechanism that I used to protect myself from being hurt again. The list of people whom I lost in the process is quite long, and, unfortunately, there might be one person on it I never should have let go.

Bellow you can find a couple of clues that may help you figure out whether you have lost your soulmate. If you recognize yourself and the situation you are in, please don’t despair. Nothing is ever lost. If you were meant to be together, you will find a way to work things out.

1) You still feel the need to help them

If you jump at the first opportunity that comes along to help this person, it means that you might still have strong feelings for them and they should never have let leave. What is more, if your actions put your new job or relationship at risk, there is definitely something there. Maybe it’s time to start listening to your heart.

2) You have adopted many of their traits

Take a closer look at the way you speak, stand and do things. Have you adopted many of this person’s traits? If your answer is positive, maybe you should ask yourself why have they had such a big influence on you?

3) You have never loved anybody more than you love them

Scientists say that falling in love is a chemical reaction that takes place in our brains and it might simply be nature’s way to keep our species alive.

However, if you can’t shake the feeling that this might be the person you were meant to spend your life with, it might be just because they are!

4) You can’t get them out of your head

You catch yourself thinking of this person literally all the time. No matter where you go or what you do, they are still there; popping up in your thoughts every second of your day. You used to think there were countless ways they were bad for you, but were they really?

The fact that you can’t get them out of your head, might be a reason to get back in touch and try to rekindle your relationship

5) You Are Still Impressed By Them

If you haven’t met anyone more, or at least as impressive as them yet, then you are in trouble. Sometimes, we can’t see people’s true worth until we lose them. Their absence is our wake-up call, but sometimes it happens too late, when this person is already gone.

 

Hopefully, you are not among those who let the love of their life go. Go through this list once, twice, thee times…take your time. Think whether you need to do something to get this person back, or, think if the person next to you makes you feel any of the things listed above. Maybe it’s time to cut ties instead. 


∼If you like our article, give Conscious Reminder a thumbs up, and help us spread LOVE & LIGHT!∼

LEAVE A REPLY

Please enter your comment!
Please enter your name here