by Conscious Reminder
Love is the biggest and the most potent force in our whole Universe. Love makes this world go round. Love is the glue which holds every single thing together.
It is also the true nature within us, so when we try to give up on love, we slowly give up on the person we really are. We slowly give up on our real nature, and we feel disconnected, confused, and disoriented.
Giving up on love will be the biggest possible mistake that a person can make. We cannot give up on something which is in us, or which is us.
When we do that, it means that we give up on ourselves and our lives. Without the presence of love, there will be nothing left.
We will frequently hear someone saying that he or she gives up on love, or that love hurts, or that he or she is afraid of loving again, and so on.
Well, people are really ignorant. They don’t have a clue about what love really is. They think that it is the primary source of pain and suffering, but they are completely wrong.
Loving is not what hurts. Loving is not the thing that causes people to feel heartbreak and pain, but rather their attachment to the ways in which things have to be or don’t have to be.
A lot of people find themselves in controlling relationship, instead of the loving ones. They control and pretend actually to know what the best for one another is, or they deprive themselves of the needed and wanted freedom.
Rather than permitting each other to express themselves and live their lives as their souls actually intended for them, authentically and freely, they get in each other’s way.
They influence and interfere with the destiny of one another, not positively, but negatively, and sometimes destructively too.
Love is simply about loving each other, and not about hurting. Love isn’t interested in trying to cage or change each other, or in controlling one another. Love simply wants to love as that is the only thing it knows.
Those people that were injured and hurt emotionally in a relationship they were in should know that love does not have the responsibility for that.
It also means that loving is not what they have to give up on but it is their attachment or the many distorted and toxic ideas they have and which are related to love.
People tend to compare love with distorted and toxic things too, claiming that they know the purpose of love; the truth is, they know just a little or simply nothing related to it.
When we start a relationship, and we have different expectations, wanting our partner to be this or that, or hoping our love is never going to end, we cannot help ourselves but suffer.
This suffering is never going to come from our love; instead, it will come from our attachment to the way things have to be and our attachment to our partner.
Things can go bad and relationships can end. However, it would not be the world’s end, and it should not be our loving life’s end too. We have to understand that the life which we live is ours and only ours.
Love is not about holding ourselves onto someone that is next to us. In fact, love would be about feeling that someone, permitting him or her to do, to be, and also to go everywhere his or her soul has him or her to go.
People should always have in mind that love will never hurt them, as it just knows how to love.
They should love themselves with all their might or love others in their lives, although they may not deserve that. They should remember that they should never give up on love!
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