Ask any millennial about their idea of love. One of the components would definitely be attachment and co-dependence.
Most of us mistakenly believe that being in love implies sole dependence on the other. This is what we’ve got wrong.
True love is the absolute opposite of attachment and possessiveness. It signifies being free. You have the freedom to select whoever and whatever you desire.
If you feel obliged to stay with someone because of some misplaced sense of loyalty, don’t confuse it with love.
True love doesn’t put you within boundaries. It doesn’t restrict or control. It lets you be whoever you want to be.
The moment it starts feeling like there are some invisible dos and don’ts that you need to follow, it is not love. True love will never undermine your individuality.
If your partner makes you feel like you owe them your loyalty, they aren’t your twin flame, for sure. In such a scenario, a karmic soulmate is a more viable option.
A twin flame relationship gives space for growth. It doesn’t bind you to that one person. True love is one that has no expectations or obligations.
It doesn’t need constant reminders or assurances for it to feel real. The romantic notion of love never gives you a choice; you are only doing what you’ve been told to do, either by your partner or by society. That is where the expectations and the attachment come from.
True love respects the will of the individual. It doesn’t mean that I am with a person because I have to be with them to be happy.
It is always a choice; the reason I am with someone is because I want to be with them. True love therefore doesn’t restrict. It doesn’t fade away if there is no physical proximity.
True love doesn’t depend on some written conditions to exist. It just is. It isn’t about ownership. It is about the choice to belong with someone, not to them.
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I wish everybody on this planet read this and understand definition of love.