1. If you are going to love, love like you mean it.
You should tell that person that you care. Look that person in the eyes and kiss that person with passion and fearlessness, which bubble up from your chest. Don’t wonder whether or not they feel the same energy. You should not stress over what you have right now or whether it will grow one day. Do not be afraid of the way life is imperfect and fragile. Just love.
2. If you are going to love, love like tomorrow will never come.
Love like this is the next day, the next hour, the next second—that is all that you have. Love like the person standing in front of you is the best damn thing that you have ever seen.
3. If you are going to love, you should love like there is no one else.
Love like you cannot get enough of their touch, their smile, and their laughter mixing with yours. Love like you have never even considered life without them, and you also believe that they have wished the same for you.
4. If you are going to love, you should love as you have never been hurt before.
Love like you have never experienced the pain of a broken heart or the dishonesty in someone’s voice. Love just like you have never watched a relationship fall apart or two people that once had a passion for each other fade into the sky like some old, as well as burnt-out stars.
5. If you are going to love, you should love with ferocity.
You should love like it is all that you are meant to do, as, in all honesty, what else is there? Give the person who cares for you your whole heart. You should give your hand, your smile, and your soul. Show yourself beyond the layers. Get vulnerable; get messy.
6. If you are going to love, you should love with eagerness.
You should show your person that you are there and that you are listening. Be present when they need you. Make plans for when you will see each other next. Your involvement, interest, and excitement should be palpable. Show them, in every possible way, how much they mean to you.
7. If you are going to love, you should love with purpose.
You should love with all that you have and all that you are. Love, even when the world makes it difficult or says that you should give up. You should show love through your actions, words, and choices. You should choose to love your person, no matter the ups and downs.
8. If you are going to love, you should love with intention.
You should not half-love. You should not commit “almost” or “kind of.” You should not waste time giving only portions of yourself, so that both of you will miss out on the real thing. You should not lose what you could have by playing victim to your fear.
9. If you are going to love, you should just do that.
All you need is love and love in return. You should never stop.
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