Truly own yourself.
#1. Don’t waste time waiting for people to care.
This applies to waiting for them to care about you and to waiting for them to care about something that you’ve said or done. If you’re sure they’ve heard about you or your accomplishment, let them raise the topic (or not)—you’ll know their care or praise is genuine.
#2. Accept that the majority of people in the world don’t truly care about you.
Most human beings generally act like they like you out of habit or custom, but not many of these people care about you in the most honest sense of the word. However, how could they? Unless someone knows you very well, it’s impossible for them to genuinely care about you, even if they want to. So, there’s really no chance someone can truly care about you if they’ve just met you.
#3. Accept that, ultimately, you’re the only one you can 100% rely on for personal happiness.
Even if you have excellent friends, family members, and other loved ones who are adept at making you content and satisfied, you never know if they’ll be there for you forever, and you never know how circumstances might change to make it impossible for them to keep you content and positive. That’s part of the reason each individual human being must be able to make themselves happy.
#4. Don’t value the perspectives of other people more than your own viewpoints.
Although it’s rarely a detrimental idea to receive feedback and suggestions, it’s very unwise to take all of the advice and apply it as directed. Experts and other professionals’ advice should carry more weight, but since you are the one responsible for your actions in life, it is crucial that you are the one who trusts and believes in your decisions the most. What’s more, that’s the only way you’ll truly be able to own your decisions, words, and actions all throughout your lifetime.
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