Honestly, one of the biggest questions in our lives is if we’re going to find our soulmate and if we’re even going to share our lives with another person. However, we’re determined to love, reproduce and live in a community. Being crazy in love is one of the best experiences a human being could feel.
The power in your heart, the emotional and physical disbalance both in your mind and body speak volumes. BUT, to experience the true love and more importantly, to keep it alive, you need to be very careful.
To know if you made the right choice and if you also want to know if your partner is a reliable person to spend your life with, see these 7 signs that will show you if he/she is the right person for you:
YOU PLAN YOUR FUTURE TOGETHER
This is very important. If someone has intentions- they must be shared with you. If someone’s truly interested in you and loves you for real, he/she won’t stand the excitement and need to talk to you about keeping your relationship alive and making more positive changes, but this time TOGETHER.
YOU RESPECT EACH OTHER
Of course, this is extremely important. Just for the record, there is no way to love someone if you don’t respect the person.
YOU ARE NOT JEALOUS
Well, jealousy might be a good sign after all, but at the beginning of the relationship, not if you want to create and develop a serious lifetime-long bond with your partner. You have to spend most of the time together, but you also need to have a private space. That’s healthy and that’s how one healthy relationship develops. If jealousy starts overshadowing your relationship that means that your connection may be destroyed.
YOU SHARE MANY OF THE SAME INTERESTS
You SHARE. Remember this word- SHARE. And not for the same interests, hobbies, sports etc; but also for the material reality. If you bet you found your soulmate, then you need to be sure that he/she is going to give you his meal after being hungry for days, or will try to be part of your hobbies and activities even if he/she is not so sure they like it.
YOU TELL EACH OTHER SECRETS AND ARE COMPLETELY HONEST
Not only in the relationship between lovers, but in every situation in your life try to be honest. If you’re not honest with your partner, if you hide secrets (even those who you think are not important for your partner) that means that you’re not meant to be together. If you don’t feel free to show your soul completely naked in front of your partner, that means he is not your soulmate and vice versa.
YOU FINISH EACH OTHER’s SENTENCES
To be honest with you, this may sound cliché, but when two people know each other well enough to know what the other is thinking, it means both of you can be yourselves, completely. And there’s nothing better than being with someone who loves you exactly the way you are.
YOU FIGHT WELL
There is no healthy relationship without fights. That’s so simple. If there’s no arguing something’s really wrong. But if your fights end rationally, if sanity always win the situation and there is a huge space for compromise between the partners, that’s a great sign.
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