Relationships are meant to be a place where you find solace when the whole world seems to be a torture machine.
But if your partner is expecting mental support from the very start and in that process is giving you extreme emotional stress with unreasonable fights, start looking up for these symptoms that indicate something is wrong with him/her:
1. Comparison
When your partner tries to make a comparison between the two of you and comes to the conclusion that they are far better than you are, that is something unusual in a relationship. Our partners should enhance our sense of well-being and safety, not foster negative competition.
2. Lack of Consistency
Every relationship experiences highs and lows, but when constant fights cause people to drift away and then return, your relationship begins to lack continuity. Melancholy hits the person who cares the most in the relationship, and pain is constant.
3. You Are Less of a Priority for Them
In a relationship, both of you would have each other’s back at difficult times. But if they are almost blind to your sadness and depression, then you really need to think about their concern and love for you. In the future, there can be more serious issues when they can easily back off.
4. The Blame Game is Strong
Lunatic people are always strong in this game; they never fail to blame other people for their mistakes. No matter how serious their sin is, they will be unapologetic as hell. This will not only take away your faith in yourself but also make a scar that can be permanent.
5. Brainwashing
Lunatics have the talent of brainwashing to a great extent, which would always make the other one in a relationship feel guilty. Also, they can make you doubt your own memory.
6. Overpowering
The Oversentimental Maniac will try to overpower and almost take control of your life in their hands. They can go to the extent of prohibiting you from doing things you like, and they may even force you to change your daily habits.
7. You are the Negative in Their Life
No matter how much you try, whatever wrong happens in their life, it is always your fault. Even if you do not have control over the things that are going wrong, you are blamed and cursed, making you doubt your abilities.
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