A false love begins with the eye and soon spills from the eye in pain. Where true love begins with the eye and settles in the heart.” -Anthony Liccone
A false twin flame appears in your life precisely when you are most in need of learning a lesson in love.
The false twin’s arrival is no mistake and is no coincidence at all. The energies that the both of you embody call out to one another, from one karmic dissatisfaction to the next.
In seeking out these individuals to play out our karma with, we attempt to understand our own traumas, our behavioral models, and to make sense of who we truly are. Usually, this relationship type is composed of an empath (the true twin flame victim) and a narcissist (the false twin flame).
In the event of their collision, both the empath and the narcissist are unsure of themselves. The only difference is that the false twin, in their attempts to establish and understand themselves, is willing to manipulate, toy with emotions, and display energy vampirism, whereas the twin flame victim, in an attempt to quench their gaping emotional wound and understand themselves, will attach viscously to the fallacies of this relationship.
All that the twin flame victim truly wants is to give love and to be loved; well, at least this is what they believe on a conscious level. On an unconscious level, they fill their energy field with thoughts such as, ‘I am not good enough for love,’ ‘I am not deserving of love,’ and ‘Nobody will ever love me.’
More than likely, this is an imprint that they may have received from one or both. of their parents, either a parent of theirs who feels this way and struggles with co-dependent issues or a parent who indirectly enforced such beliefs by failing to meet the child’s needs for attention, recognition, or affection.
Subconsciously, the false twin also wonders if they are worthy or deserving of love, but this is a query that they would much rather push below the surface, failing to pay recognition to it, instead developing a false narcissistic persona in which they are the greatest, the most intelligent, and the twin flame victim should be lucky to even be with them! This false sense of self and inflated ego is how the false twin protects themselves from the abandonment and neglect that they so fear.
The same wound.
Both of these souls hold the same inner core wound, and it is this wound that their relationship, and their karma, is built around. All of the transactions within the relationship will see them being triggered by and responding to these internal models.
The false twin, fearing abandonment and facing deeply buried feelings of neglect and abandonment, establishes a physical and emotional distance from the twin flame victim, controlling when, for how long, and where they see each other. This enables the false twin to experience happiness independent of the twin flame victim’s presence, and guarantees that they will never experience disappointment or rejection if the twin flame victim decides to cancel or opt out of plans. This can never actually happen.
Because the scheduling of time spent together is so erratic, scarce, and spontaneous, the true twin will come to cherish any time spent together and will surely never miss a date or appointment, even at the expense of their own experience. The false twin becomes a drug. This addictive, elusive, and fixating drug, and because you never know when you are going to get it, you are CONSTANTLY on the edge, waiting for it, praying for it, hoping for it.
All of the energy that is directed toward obsessing over the false twin, feeding their ego, and holding them in the light depletes the life force of the twin flame victim while enabling the false twin to become replenished and only further more determined in their efforts to display the pseudo heroine/champion role.
- Amy Winehouse and husband Blake, Amy (life path 8), Blake (life path 22).
- Nas, and ex-wife Kelis, Nas (life path 7), Kelis (life path 1/0)—combined number 8.
Numerologically speaking, these karmic attachments will typically involve the presence of the numbers 11 or 8, as both of these numbers pertain to karma—facing our karmic transactions and leaving behind past traumas in pursuit of spirituality and wholeness.
So many of you have been wondering whether someone is actually truly your Twin Flame or just an impostor Twin Flame sent to help you move through your blocks and upsets inside of yourself. We call this a false Twin Flame.
Here are the eight signs of a false Twin Flame to help you identify them:
1. A false Twin Flame will regularly abandon you.
They will find ways to split up with you and get away from you, either emotionally or physically. They will not be interested in spending long stretches of time with you.
2. A false Twin Flame will try to lie to you about who they really are.
They will not want you to know they are false because they get so much love energy out of you without having to reciprocate anything real. A false Twin Flame will likely try to take as much of your love as possible without wanting to give any love back.
3. A false Twin Flame will not share your vision for the future.
4. A false Twin Flame will not share all your deepest values with you, nor will they feel inclined to do spiritual work with you to discover your values together.
5. A false Twin Flame will likely try and hide their true selves from you.
They will not want to honestly share the deepest parts of themselves with you even if they’re pushed in a corner or persuaded to do so.
6. A false Twin Flame will not help you create the vision for your life, nor will they feel inclined to be part of your life’s vision.
7. A false Twin Flame will always prevent you from going deeper with them, no matter what you do!
8. A false Twin Flame will not be interested in bringing your painful misalignments to the surface.
They will be more interested in enjoying your presence now as you are and not interested in investing in you and helping you become aligned with your Divine Self by bringing up your core “stuff” to the surface for healing.
Do not feel hopeless if you are going through a false Twin Flame experience, because here’s the wonderful secret: the purpose of the false Twin Flame is to assist you in clearing the deep thoughts and beliefs of separation that are preventing your union with your true Twin Flame, and once cleared you will be in your sacred Twin Flame Union.
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