Like every other thing in life that is significant and important, even true love comes with a few problems of its own.
First of all, the absence of expectations and obligations implies a sense of independence.
You can’t expect your twin flame to live according to your choices. They will do what they think is best for them, and you will have to make your peace with it.
It is your duty to not feel threatened if they decide to talk to another person. Remember, you cannot control them; you can only control your own emotions.
And this is challenging. It is easier to say that you love and accept someone with all their flaws, but it is very difficult to put it into practice. However, when it is true love, you will slowly learn to do just that.
Another problem with true love is that we cannot, at first, handle all the love that comes our way. For us to be able to love someone else, we need to learn to love ourselves. And how many of us were taught, or in fact, even told, about self-love?
Most millennials are in a love-hate relationship with themselves. We experience reservations about forgiving ourselves for our drawbacks. And then this random stranger appears, who seems to love us for both the good and the bad.
How is it possible? It takes a lot of time and effort to even reconcile with the idea that the things we used to think were less than perfect about ourselves are appreciated by someone else.
In true love, we have no other option but to embrace ourselves—the good and the bad—because our partner definitely doesn’t differentiate between the two. Our twin flame is our mirror. In them, we see the positive as well as the negative side of us.
And they love us for all that. Because they love us for us. And of course, it doesn’t mean that we don’t seek to improve. We can always be better than we were yesterday.
But to be able to forgive ourselves and embrace ourselves with all our shortcomings is the boon and bane of true love.
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