Some people are older than their years. They are old souls trapped in younger bodies.
There are some key signs to watch out for that might tell you that your own child is also such a being. These individuals typically exhibit a higher level of maturity and calmness, with a significant display of worldweariness as a key characteristic. Here are six signs you should keep an eye out for in order to determine whether your child fits the bill and what you can do to deal with it.
1. They’re Misfits
As old souls, they can’t really get excited by the usual hobbies and past times of kids their own age. While later in life they may grow to appreciate the qualities of childhood, they might not get along too well with kids their own age at the time.
2. They Get Along with Adults
This isn’t much of a surprise, considering the earlier point. They enjoy a deeper level of conversation, a depth that can be provided to them by people older than themselves. That’s why they even get age-inappropriate humor earlier.
3. They Question Authority
Their greater maturity lets them see through the ruse that adults are always right. They quickly recognize when figures in authority are as wrong as anyone else. Rebellion is fairly routine.
4. Take Nothing for Granted
Authoritarian behavior is not respected by them. They will follow the rules if they understand the logic behind them and agree with the basic principles. That level of engagement is necessary to bring them to heel. They will not take anything for granted and will question everything until they find satisfactory answers.
5. They Can be a Bit Introverted
At a very young age, they start the process of learning to accept themselves and see through the façade of teenage social competition. They, therefore, like to spend time alone. An old soul experiences less social insecurity.
6. They Underachieve
Motivation is a main concern when dealing with them as students. They are not motivated by the same things as others. If they find the goal uninteresting, then they will not expend any effort. Keep them in school, and maybe try for some healthy after-school programs.
