by Conscious Reminder
Throughout one year, there are several periods which make our souls yearn for companionship, and we feel pulled towards joining with the person that our Universe created for us. We wish to find our soulmate.
However, in reality, we are already somehow connected with that person. Every choice we make or every interaction we have with other people will help our Universe lead us into our dream relationship.
The real purpose while we manifest our soulmate will be to get ready for receiving that which our Universe has created for us. Focusing on ourselves will not be selfish like it sounds. One powerful form of self-love is working to improve and take better care of ourselves.
These are the five self-love steps which will return love into our lives:
Forgiving and releasing our past.
When we know that our soulmates are about to come in our lives, we have to make some space in our lives and hearts for them. Forgiving and releasing everything that appeared before will be a powerful process we can actually do for positive manifestation and self-care.
We should forgive our past loves that have hurt us, or who never did the right thing by our side. We should forgive those people who caused us any negativity and harm. And, the most important thing would be to forgive our past self.
We should forgive ourselves for poor choices and judgment in a relationship, and anything we did to cause some harm to ourselves and others as well. Our past has shaped us, our relationships also shaped us, our loves shaped us, and our mistakes shaped us – however, this does not mean they own us, and they aren’t our destiny or identity.
Appreciate what we have.
In order to manifest our soulmate, we have to acknowledge every other blessing in our lives before we ask for more. Gratitude will be an excellent practice, which will permit us to reframe our own thoughts, in order to focus our attention on everything we have rather than on what we do not have.
When we focus more on what lacks in our lives, we are never going to have what we really want, as we are always going to want more. When we train our mind to feel thankful for every beautiful thing we have in our lives, we are always going to have what we want.
We should try to start and end every day by expressing our gratitude for one particular thing in our lives. With this, we are going to train our mind to be open for every blessing we already have.
Focus on what we want, not on what we don’t want.
This is the step many individuals think of right when they plan to do manifestation work. Setting our intentions is a fundamental step in the process of manifesting our soulmate. We are demonstrating self-love when we are quite clear about our desires.
One important thing is to be clear about the things that we want or don’t want when we set our intentions. We can take the needed time in order to meditate and precisely understand the individual that we would like to manifest as our soulmate.
When we are finally clear about the things we want, we should reflect on the opposite. We should know our desires and what we want to avoid. After that, we should set our intention and focus on everything we really want, instead of on what we don’t want.
Fall in love with ourselves.
In fact, it is natural to desire to have beautiful and fulfilling relationships with our soulmates and experience acceptance and love in the same fashion. However, when manifesting our soulmate, we have to fall in love with ourselves first. We should recognize the fascinating person that we are. We are strong, lovable, and interesting. We deserve our love just like our soulmate deserves it.
Loving ourselves well will breed confidence. Such confidence is profoundly attractive to every person in our lives, and it is going to be particularly attractive to our soulmate when he or she arrives. We can start by simply focusing on each aspect of our being that we love. We should appreciate all our positive aspects, gifts, and talents.
As we fall in love with ourselves, we are going to start seeing quick manifestation happening. Love will come from within. We are only going to have more love for sharing with our soulmate.
Be open to receiving.
Self-love also requires that we open ourselves in order to receive the love we deserve. We should open our hearts to every possibility that abounds. We can start by permitting in the love of all those people that care about us and are present in our lives.
Love can come in many different forms. Learning how to embrace that love, which is already present in our lives, is going to program us to be wide open to possibilities of love everywhere around us. We can never know where our soulmate is going to appear in our lives. Being vulnerable and open in love will always show real strength.
When we finally manifest everything that our heart desires, our dream relationship is going to move carefully towards us with some magnetic attraction.
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