by Conscious Reminder
Don’t ever let anyone make you think that you need to beg for their love!
By doing this, you’re giving up ownership of your life to someone else and that is a huge mistake. You need to ensure that you’re still in charge of your own ship and you must remember to stand up for yourself.
Of course, love is worth fighting for and you shouldn’t hesitate when it comes to that but to leave your life at the other’s person’s mercy is never right.
If you want someone to love you back in the way that you love them, you need to ensure that you are deserving of that kind of love.
You need to open yourself up to that person. Let your vulnerability show through and work hard for what you want. But don’t ever stoop to begging for love.
Hardly ever easy, many of us have felt like love has escaped up despite pouring every ounce of ourselves into finding it. Just when it seems like we’ve finally found it, it slips out of reach. Heartbreak can feel like a disaster and it often drives people to take desperate action. Never let your broken heart overwhelm you. You need to keep faith and believe that you’ll find love when the time is right.
If you care about someone, it is important that you tell them about your feelings. It’s comforting for them to know that they have you in their corner even if the world is against them. Telling them that they mean a lot to you and letting them know that being with them makes you happy is an important step towards earning their love.
Before learning to love other people, you need to practice self-love. Figure out who you really are and embrace that person. You deserve love just as much as everyone else, though it may not always come from where you want it to come.
But life is unpredictable that way. People can’t be made to love others and at the same time, you shouldn’t be made to beg for love either. You need to maintain your own individuality and sense of self-respect no matter how you feel about another person.
Humility is an important trait but that doesn’t mean you need to let go of your dignity and let another person treat you like dirt. You are valuable in your own right and there are other people who would understand that. They’ll be happy to have you in their lives.
If you’re in love, love that person truly and stay hopeful. You can show them your love in a number of ways and gestures and if it still doesn’t work out, there’s nothing wrong with that. Some people just aren’t meant to be together but you’ll definitely find someone better.
Remember that you are a wonderful human being. You had the strength and the courage to love someone and you never have to bring yourself so low that you need to grovel before them.
When you find true love you’ll be able to recognize it because it is the most beautiful part of life.
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