by Conscious Reminder
How can you heal a wound that hurts your soul, not just your body? How do you piece together the broken pieces of your heart and try to make it whole again?
How can you move on with your life, when everything you knew about it is no longer true?
The truth is, there is no easy way to go about it. You might try to dull the pain or wish for it to go away. But it won’t go until it has taught you what it needs to teach you.
And no matter how appealing the idea of someone rescuing you from your darkness may seem, at the end of the day, it has to be you.
You need to realize that your pain is yours alone. To feel, to embrace, and to heal. No one can do that for you and the sooner you take charge of your own healing, the happier you will be for it. Only you have the power and responsibility to truly heal yourself.
You can only heal once you realize that your mistakes are lessons. And instead of trying to forget them, you accept them and learn from them.
You will be able to heal once you realize that whatever upheaval you went through was teaching you a lesson. You have to stop feeling like the victim and instead try to learn from the hardships.
In your process of healing, you need to direct the love and care you have inwards, to yourself instead of a new person.
Finding someone new is never the answer. You need to love yourself, everything else will be taken care of.
You can only heal when you learn to accept your pain. When you allow yourself to feel that pain, only then can you get past it. Numbing it or neglecting it won’t do you any good.
It is not going to be easy and it most definitely won’t be quick. Healing a broken soul is a messy business.
But as long as you put your faith in yourself and the higher power, you should do just fine.
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