Loving someone is something you can work on, but your identity itself is never going to change.
According to astrology, partnerships and romantic relationships can be more difficult under certain zodiac placements.
Because love is intrinsically linked to personal development, these transits or placements must undergo more profound transformations before they can finally uncover the love of their lives.
No aspect, be it a transit in your natal chart or Venus’s placement, indicates that you will always be alone; what it does indicate is that you will need more time to get to a place where you can attract what you need.
Although your natal chart reflects your comprehensive personality and, to a lesser extent, your inherent love qualities, these aspects of your personality can evolve alongside your knowledge and development, even though your core values remain constant.
Understanding the lessons and difficulties of the placements below can help you decide whether they are right for you.
What you need to learn in this life to have the life and relationship you dream of is revealed by your natal chart, which is one of the genuine purposes of astrology.
While everyone learns at their own pace, it’s important to know your natal chart and its aspects as soon as possible so you can approach dating and relationships with awareness.
Your heart’s desires are bound to hear nothing but good things.
The thing is, you usually have to go through some personal growth struggles before you can really create it.
Finally, when you discover (or are discovered by) the love of your life, you will know that the wait was well worth it.
Zodiac placements that have a harder time finding their forever love:
• Leo Rising
It may be surprising that this placement signifies discovering love later in life, given that the Sun rules Leos, who are known for being able to follow their hearts.
Saturn rules the relationship aspect of a Leo Rising’s life. As Saturn is both the Lord of Time and Karma, it is not uncommon for this planet to teach us valuable lessons about our past actions. A lot of these lessons revolve around controlling the other person, being impulsive, and putting more stock in outward appearances than in the real qualities of a partner for a Leo rising.
You can get past this by picking a partner who is good for you, rather than simply someone who looks good to you, and by letting your partner be completely authentic and present with you.
You will finally be able to feel the love you’ve always dreamed of after you’ve mastered these lessons.
• Cancer Rising
Saturn rules your relationships, just as it rules Leo Risings, so you can expect to learn valuable lessons about yourself as well as lessons from your past.
While your nurturing nature makes you an excellent caretaker, it can also make it difficult for you to set healthy boundaries in relationships. This might be viewed as a form of codependency, wherein your emotions are closely tied to your partner’s feelings. Their happiness determines your ability to be happy.
Furthermore, you have a knack for falling for partners who are in need of some work, or “fixer-uppers,” because they have great potential but lack the qualities you require for a healthy relationship.
Setting limits is essential for you. In other words, you shouldn’t sacrifice too much of who you are for your partner, giving them too much of your time and energy.
Love transforms into everything you imagined it could be the moment you figure this out and realize your needs are important, too.
• Saturn in the 7th house
Saturn, more than any other planet, can make it difficult for you to progress in your relationships because it indicates that you will feel more limited in your ability to do so.
The seventh house governs long-term partnerships in astrology. Saturn in this house indicates that you will learn more about love than the average person. There might be a never-ending parade of romantic interests, making it appear like you’re stuck with the same person or that nothing you do will make things better.
With Saturn in the seventh house, it’s time to put your health first. When it comes to personal growth and overcoming challenges, no romantic partner—no matter how wonderful—can compare.
You will have a better chance of surviving this difficult placement if you draw wisdom from your previous relationships, even those you witnessed as a child.
• Saturn square Venus
Due to its heavy emphasis on joy and love, this astrological aspect is among the most difficult to work with. In the beginning, you might look for these in a partner rather than focusing on yourself. This can lead to feelings of isolation, loneliness, and disappointment because it seems like everyone else has what you desire so badly.
However, the lesson here is to love and value oneself. The more self-assured you are, the less you’ll rely on other people to meet your needs. In doing so, you transform your energy into one that exudes confidence, which in turn attracts the kind of relationship you’ve always desired.
• Saturn opposite Venus
This is the least enjoyable part of being a human because it means you will be spending a lot of time alone, at least in the beginning.
When Venus rules over joy and love and Saturn rules over limits and solitude, the two planets are in direct opposition to one another. Due to the nebulous nature of love under this aspect, you may convince yourself that you do not desire a relationship or even prefer being alone.
Being open and honest with yourself and letting your guard down in your romantic relationships is a major takeaway from this section. You will never get what you want in life if you constantly put obstacles in your way of it. On the contrary, it’s about opening up and trusting someone enough to let them in.
• Venus in Virgo
Planet Venus is associated with romantic love. Virgo has a hard time getting and keeping a partner.
A sign associated with fertility and healing, Virgo is also an earth sign, represented by the goddess of the earth. Venus in Virgo, on the other hand, is sometimes influenced by the more difficult traits of this sign, such as an obsession with perfection.
It might sound like you’re being too hard on your partner in a relationship. Furthermore, you might have an idealized picture of love in your head and label anything that falls short as flawed.
Additionally, there is a possibility of constantly feeling that nothing is sufficient. You will move on to demanding more and more from your partner if they begin to do more of what you ask of them rather than expressing appreciation and contentment.
One way to keep things in perspective is to avoid imposing an unrealistic standard of love on your relationship. Send them encouraging words to make them feel good about themselves, and keep in mind that they are human beings with feelings and needs of their own.
• Venus in Gemini
This is a problematic placement because it does not indicate difficulty in falling in love, but rather in remaining faithful to one’s love.
Venus desires to devote herself completely because she loves. But Gemini is a sign of duality, so it’s not uncommon for them to be a bit flitchy and have a million different things going on at once. Having more than one choice available to you at all times can make it difficult for Venus in Gemini to be faithful or monogamous in relationships.
Another thing that comes easily to you is attracting new partners because of your naturally flirtatious nature. When you’re free to pursue your feelings with other people, this placement might thrive in polyamorous relationships. Knowing your reasons for choosing and staying with your current partner will be the deciding factor if you don’t.
If you want to avoid wasting an incredible opportunity because you were led to believe something better existed, it helps to have a rationale for your decision to be faithful, since Gemini governs mental activity.
• Venus in Sagittarius
Even though it gets trickier, Venus in Sagittarius is still a very passionate lover.
Contrary to popular belief, Sagittarius is not a sign that has difficulty committing. Still, they can’t live without the combination of security and independence. Because of their need for independence or desire to spend time away once a year rediscovering themselves or learning something new, traditional relationships with signs of this balancing act may be difficult.
As the sign of the seeker, Sagittarius may struggle in committed relationships at first because they are perpetually looking for something more. At times, it does, but more often than not, this sign seeks out companionship that satisfies a specific need rather than a deep, abiding love.
A major step in building your everlasting love is making sure your partner is actually in harmony with you. You will be able to find and maintain the love you’ve been seeking if you have that, in addition to the freedom to keep growing and experiencing life.
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