by Conscious Reminder
There are no coincidences.
If something bad had happened, it must have been for a reason.
Bad things are just part of the process, part of life and they will pass. Nothing is permanent.
It is important to have, or at least to try to develop the ability to detach from the moment in which something bad happened.
Everything we go through is a lesson. It happened because there was something we needed to learn… to correct… to improve…
It might have also happened because there was another opportunity waiting for you to take it, exactly as the saying ‘When one door closes, another opens’ explains it.
In the situation, it is difficult to see; it is difficult to remind yourself that there’s a reason why everything turned out the way it did.
But – the one comforting thing about this is the realization that time is our biggest allay. It gives us the chance to grow up and improve; it gives us the opportunity to develop the much needed skill of DETACHMENT.