by Conscious Reminder
The things that make life worth living come with steep price tags too most of the time. Love is not an exception in this case.
It is one of the few things that genuinely make people feel, in this otherwise numbing universe. However, when it is torn apart and relationships are broken up, the pain is worse than anything else in this world.
Then again what else is discussed as much as this is? From books, movies and all kinds of cultural things, this pain that comes from love torn apart, is probably that fills everything with life.
But we are not here for that.
We are here to tell you some things you should know, after you see your love falling apart.
1. No see, no pain
This is true. Stop contacting your ex whenever you feel emotional. It does not help you find peace and it definitely does not help them; they definitely want out of this relationship or whatever it was. So stop doing it, for the betterment of both you and your ex; after all, you once loved them.
2. Do not bottle up your feelings
Bottling feelings only gets you as far as making you angry with everything and everyone. This makes you be in conflict with the universe. And we all know that is not helping anyone.
3. Admit that it is over
To yourself because you owe it to your heart. You owe it to yourself to move on from the shambles. You owe it to yourself and your loved ones; an explanation for the ending of this relationship, along with, a promise of being well again.
Focusing on work too can make you a square after a while. You need to make sure you unwind before dousing yourself into work again. This also includes going into social situations and actually considering someone new, as a potential romantic partner. The heart learns to heal itself over time, with newer responsibilities and new loves.
This is one of those good, old nonstop shop of solutions. Take some time off for yourself and your well-being and meditate. It works wonders.