We have all sometimes met a very toxic person, and we could sense his or her toxicity right when he or she walked into the room. But, we doubted ourselves as we could not tell that for sure.
After that, we waited for him or her to show him or herself, patiently, up until we almost stopped trusting he or she is toxic, just to prove us that it was like we thought.
While the time passes, and we all become conscious of the meaning of self-care, we are also learning more things related to what toxic individuals are created of or how significant it will be to let these people go.
However, as all this occurs, there will be misinformation on the internet, which will lead us to have wrong conclusions or assume possibly the worst related to some people who are actually the best.
Here are the seven behaviors that toxic people display right before they finally reveal themselves:
They want to ruin our happiness.
For example, we came to our friend with some good news, but he or she responds in ways which make us feel really bad about our success. In fact, these are people we should stay away from. True friends or good-hearted individuals will celebrate our success with us, rather than working against you.
They love when we pay more attention to them.
Toxic people continually seek attention. When we hang out in group settings, and we notice some friend who always tries to actually get the whole group’s attention, we may have to rethink his or her behavior.
They want us to prove ourselves.
Similarly to narcissists, toxic individuals believe that their close family and friends should always prove how worthy they are. To actually be in the lives of toxic people, we will need to release something that really matters to us, so that they are going to keep us around. We should not fall under such influences but simply go ahead with our lives.
Everything that toxic people say is a hyperbole.
We all know people who exaggerate all the time. Dramatic efforts, in order to make things appear exponentially better or worse than they truly are, will be the major trait related to toxic individuals.
Rather than taking responsibility, they will throw their ball in our field.
When a person did something wrong to us, they should actually respond in ways which accept responsibilities for their own actions. Rather than that, toxic people are going to respond by simply pointing to our flaws. We should not permit this.
They are the best manipulators in the world.
The people that are most toxic are extremely selfish and try to control everything and everyone around them. To them, we are simply a pawn which may be bent to their will, and that’s how it actually is.
They are also judgmental.
Although every person in this world judges from one time to another, toxic individuals are continually judging other people. When we notice our friend who constantly speaks badly about other people, or tries to manipulate them and the feelings they have about others, they are definitely toxic.
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