by Conscious Reminder
Finding love is no easy task and the journey is full of pitfalls and wrong turns.
There are times when you’ll feel like you’re ready to give up and accept whoever comes your way but don’t succumb to hopelessness just yet.
When it comes to love and relationships, settling won’t help you find happiness. Live the best life that you can until you meet the right person.
Don’t settle for a person who doesn’t love you enough to do all this for you:
1. You feel something you’ve never experienced with anyone else
As cliched as it may sound, there is no denying the truth of these emotions. None of your exes would have been able to make you feel love like this. You’ll feel happier and more joyful than ever before in your life because the right person is capable of that.
2. There is nothing false in their behavior
With all the toxic behaviour around you, there’s no point allowing more of that into your life via your partner. Don’t settle for a person who lies to you, no matter how hard the truth might be to bring out. They should inspire so much trust in you that you never have cause to doubt their intentions.
3. They love each and every part of you
Imperfections are part of being human and none of us can escape them no matter how hard we try. Your true love will love you for all that you are including the parts of yourself that you haven’t reconciled with.
4. Being with you makes them proud
If your partner avoids you in public and is only comfortable being with you when you’re alone, leave them. There is no point hanging around a person who doesn’t take pride in having you as their partner.
5. They share all of themselves with you
Part of being in love is knowing each other inside out. When you’re with the right person, they’ll bring down all their walls and allow you to see even their biggest vulnerabilities. You will feel like doing the same for them because you want them to know all of you.
6. Your self confidence grows when you’re with them
The love your partners shows you, has to be such that it helps you love yourself more. The right person will love you and make you feel good when you’re wearing expensive clothes and when you’re chilling in a ratty t shirt.
7. They’ll always find time for you
When it comes to true love, you’ll both want to spend as much time as possible together and will be willing to give up on certain things to do so. Find the person who really loves being around and will move things around in their life so that you can be together.
8. You feel grounded when you’re with them
Life can be an especially twisted rollercoaster ride sometimes and you’ll need someone to lean on when things get difficult. Your partner should be there for you at these times helping you feel grounded and secure even when you’re being tossed about.
9. They’ll always be in touch
Sometimes life and work will get in the way of your time together but just because you don’t see each other doesn’t mean that you ignore each other completely. If your partner can’t meet up with you, they’ll still at least text to see if you’re okay.
10. Neither of you can think of living without the other
You’re not just a good way to pass time for them. All their hopes and dreams for the future feature you in them. Both of you are essential to each other and you wouldn’t even dream of it being otherwise.
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