No matter how successful our lives are, there will always be unsuccessful stages. Sometimes this is a failure that carries a lot of potential.
For example, a man becomes independent, and when he finally leaves the nest, he has nowhere to live. Alternatively, he may find a place to live, but the conditions are significantly worse; he must pay rent, there is no continuous hot water, and no one is available to do the dishes for him. The creature comforts he once enjoyed in his parents’ home appear to have vanished. On one hand, it looks pretty bad, but on the other, the situation this guy is currently in is what will help him grow into a fine young man.
Or, let’s say, there is a man who doesn’t like his job, and he gets fired. Despite having less money, he still has a sparkle in his eyes. And that sparkle is exactly what will attract so many new things into his life.
Or when people get divorced. They go separate ways; they share property, sell, and return things, but deep inside they feel relieved. And when the storm is over and the air is lighter, you know you have reached a completely different level of clarity.
People simply break up because they need time and space to deal with their inner demons, but then they start over with the same man, but this time both of them are different people.
In the end, if it doesn’t work, people experience heavy emotions and start living them; they cry, suffer, and feel sorry for themselves.
Every next level is often uncomfortable, empty, lonely, and difficult. And then, completely out of the blue, it turns into something warm, peaceful, and harmonious.
That is why experienced people often rejoice when they see that you have broken up, divorced, gone, left, moved on, or resigned. This is particularly true when it’s not a way out, but rather a move forward. After all, the darkest hour is just before dawn!
To everyone who is in crisis, don’t give up; you are doing an excellent job! Chin up; tomorrow is a new day!
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