It’s Time To Stop Being A Pushover

by Conscious Reminder

Stop being a pushover. Your life is your own-your friends or acquaintances have not granted it to you.

You don’t owe anyone anything, which is precisely why no one gets to behave badly with you for any reason whatsoever.

You don’t have to let others treat you badly, whilst hoping that things would change for the better someday. Yes, people do show growth and development, but you aren’t responsible for that.

They can change, they can grow without being rude to you, or without treating you like garbage. You shouldn’t be their canvas on which they are trying to test if they can improve as human beings.

Don’t hide what you have. After all, why should you? You have rightfully earned that, and no matter what others think, you can’t change their train of thought.

If they have to judge you, they would do so irrespective of you lying down on the ground for them to walk on. They judge simply because they have nothing better to do.

They know that they are weak, that they would never have the same potential as you, which is what ticks them off and makes them angry. Their judgments are manifestations of their jealousy towards you.

Don’t settle for anything lesser than the best. For, you are worth it. Don’t wait for it, risk it. Life is way too short to be worrying about things.

Yet, you need to believe it in your heart, that what you have is the best. Stop believing that you will get something better, because the time is now, and you have to get the best right now.

You deserve something magical, and trust us, you deserve it so very much. Don’t waste your love on people who don’t need it. Don’t waste your love on people who won’t understand it.

There is no reason why you need to get your heart broken by someone who doesn’t care about you.

Why should you even try? We aren’t kids anymore. We know what is going to harm us and what is going to save us. So what is the use of going for things that purposefully harm us?

We know what is toxic and what isn’t. So why do we like pursuing something that is so toxic? You need to stop being masochistic and embrace yourself.

The moment you start loving yourself, you will truly find the love that loves you to the moon and back!

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1 COMMENT

  1. Once again, “transactional love” will always result in loss… Period!\ If you love freely without condition (not expecting anything in return!), then love will find and flow automatically… Yes, learn to differentiate between; true unconditional giving, and transactional love, both for others and yourself, then your disappointments (ego gratifications!) will be far less! Paraphrasing Gandhi, “Be the love you want in the world!”… Namaste…

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